Dealing with family cabin fever: Gearing up for a big family gathering and worried about the inevitable political arguments? Bustle’s got you covered. Whether you’re gathering with like-minded folks or your family spans the political spectrum, knowing how to talk about politics and other hot button issues without raising tensions can be key to preserving that warm fuzzy holiday glow.

Similarly, travelling with your partner can be a daunting challenge with the dreaded spectre of arguing on vacation hanging over what should be a relaxing break from reality. Elite Daily recommends a conversation before you leave about how you might handle arguments but even without that preparation, there are ways to make the most of the trip. Try to resolve the argument as quickly and conclusively as possible so you can both move on and enjoy the rest of your vacation. If one or both of you can’t get over it, spend some time apart to cool down. And if things don’t look like they’ll improve, bookmark the conversation for when you return home and make the most of your trip.